Happiness is a desire of every
human being and it's the ultimate goal of every living being. While people may be suffering from a disease
of lack of happiness in their organs of social system, Bhutan is not far from
happiness. May be one can consider gross national happiness as a utopian idea
but happiness does exists in our country and in nerves of every one. We had
strong social bond and families were extended with size of almost five families
of modern world. That created a sentiment to shoring up each other at all times
and taking care of others while they are not very well. Am neither a social
scientist nor an enlightened being who can unfold all the knots of social
complications and philosophies that of community vitality. I venture to submit
the facts that we are undergoing in the era of globalization.
I live in a traditional house
casting our unique Bhutanese architectural design in the heart of a harmonious
village. Its stunning landscape and natural splendor lull me peaceful moments filled
with smiles. But I sense something missing in the system that drives me to deep
and desperate thinking. I felt bit
uneasiness to say we have a strong social relationship and community vitality
in our system. We hear about theft in our neighbors' house and locks broken the
next door while we were asleep.
It was Mr. X who had a quarrel
with his neighbour regarding a fight between two unrecognized cousins of two
families. Although Mrs. Y lived few meters away from her half brother, she had
to call her sister all the way from Thimphu when she was sick since she didn't
know about the brother. Dasho Zs' house was ragged by a bunch of goons while he
was away on leave despite his nephew living in the ground floor of the same
house. We have lost our unique and fabulous
culture of greetings and social meetings (informal). We no more care about what's
happening in our society and call it modernization and globalization?
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